For long-distance, dating, ENM, and partners
Show you’re a real couple.
Two real people, checked together. It shows on both of your profiles.
- Real person
- Couple
- Government ID
- Over 18
SofiaCouple profile · two peopleWe’d both love to meet you this weekend.
Me too. Before we meet you both, can you send your Realr?
Here it is, for both of us.
What it shows
What your couple Realr can show.
- A real couple
- Real person
- Their own photos
- Over 18
- Here right now
Together
Two real people, one link.
Each of you is a real person, checked together.
Jordan & Claire
Your details
Each of you chooses what to show.
You keep your own account. Your partner can’t share for you.
Try it. Tap a row.
What one partner shows
Meeting a couple?
Ask both of them who they are.
Send one link. They each choose what to show you.
“We each verified, then confirmed each other. Now we send one link.”
Try it. What do you want to know?
Before we meet you both, can you verify on Realr?
Their answer
They proved 3 things
- Free to send. Free to answer.
- They can say no.
- It ends after fourteen days.
How it works
Prove who you are in three steps.
Check your face and ID
Your ID is checked once. It is never shown to anyone.
Choose what people see
Show the checks they need. Hide the rest.
Send your link
In a chat or as a QR code. They open it without an account.
Privacy
They see the check, never your ID.
People see that a check passed. They never see your documents.
- ID documents
- Date of birth
- Phone number
- Legal name, unless you share it
Questions
Questions people ask.
People doubt there are two of us.
You’re each a verified real person, and checked together. People see two real people who are together.
Can my partner share my details?
No. You each keep your own account and choose what to show.
We work together. Does it help?
Yes. Duos and co-founders can share one link that shows both people are real and connected.
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