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realr
For dating apps, DMs, and first dates

Know who’s real before you meet.

Send one link that proves you’re a real, verified person — face, age, and photos checked. Ask for theirs back. Meet without the doubt, and without handing over private data.

Right now vs. with Realr

The trust gaps Dating & meeting someone new keep hitting.

Right now

You match, you chat — but you have no idea if the photos, the age, or the person are even real.

With Realr

A Realr link shows a live liveness check, verified age, and verified photos — so you know they’re a real person before you meet.

Right now

Meeting a stranger from an app is a safety leap of faith.

With Realr

Both of you share a Realr first. Real person, real photos, location consistent — confidence before the coffee, no addresses exposed.

Right now

Catfishing and stolen photos are everywhere, and a blue tick proves nothing.

With Realr

Verified photos are matched to a live face, so the pictures are genuinely them — not lifted from someone else.

What you get

Trust you can point at. Outcomes you can feel.

Know they’re real.

Face, age, and photos are checked before you meet — no catfish, no borrowed pictures.

Meet with less fear.

When both sides can verify, the first meeting is about the connection — not the caution.

Verified, nothing exposed.

You share that you’re verified — never your documents, address, or private details.

One link, everywhere.

Instagram bio, agency pitch, packaging insert — same handle, same trust, no platform lock-in.

Where your Realr shows up

The same proof, in every chat before you meet.

One link, one QR — readable wherever your conversation lives. Mock examples below; your Realr looks like your Realr.

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Aisha

Verified human

Bengaluru. Verified real, photos and all — send me your Realr before we meet.

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Hey! Really looking forward to meeting up this weekend 🙂
Before we do — mind sending your Realr? Just to be safe.
Of course — here you go 🙂
realr.me/aisha
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Aisha

Verified · real person, age & photos

Perfect, sending now.

Made to share

The trust cards you’ll earn. The ones people screenshot.

Realr

Verified Human

Real person — first trust checks in place.

realr.me/aisha

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Identity Verified

Government ID, phone, and selfie checked.

realr.me/aisha

Verified
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Fast Responder

Replies in under an hour.

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Common questions

Dating & meeting someone new, answered.

How do you know if someone online is real before you meet?

Ask for their realr. It shows a live liveness check, verified age, and photos matched to their live face — so you know there’s a real person behind the profile, not a stolen photo or a bot. You share yours back, and neither of you hands over private documents.

What are the signs you’re being catfished?

Reluctance to video-call, photos that look too polished or reverse-search to someone else, a story that keeps shifting, and pressure to move off the app fast. The fastest check is to ask for a verified profile — a catfish can’t produce a live, face-matched realr.

How can I verify someone before meeting them?

Both people share a realr link before the date. It confirms a real, verified human with checked photos and consistent details — confidence before you meet, with no home address or ID numbers exposed.

Is it safe to share my realr?

Yes. realr shows the green checks — real person, age, photos verified — never the underlying documents or private data. You control exactly which fields a stranger can see.

One handle. Your whole trust story.

Send me your Realr — before the first date.

Verify a Realr