Realr
Verified Human
Real person — first trust checks in place.
For dating apps, DMs, and first dates
Know who’s real before you meet.
Send one link: face, age and photos checked. Ask for theirs back. Meet without the doubt, or the documents.
Aisha
@aisha
- Real person
- Government ID
Real person · 18+ · Photos verified
Right now vs. with Realr
Where it goes wrong.
Right now
You match, you chat — but you have no idea if the photos, the age, or the person are even real.
With Realr
A Realr link shows a live liveness check, verified age, and verified photos — so you know they’re a real person before you meet.
Right now
Meeting a stranger from an app is a safety leap of faith.
With Realr
Both of you share a Realr first. Real person, real photos, location consistent — confidence before the coffee, no addresses exposed.
Right now
Catfishing and stolen photos are everywhere, and a blue tick proves nothing.
With Realr
Verified photos are matched to a live face, so the pictures are genuinely them — not lifted from someone else.
What you get
Proof you can point at.
Know they’re real.
Face, age, and photos are checked before you meet — no catfish, no borrowed pictures.
Meet with less fear.
When both sides can verify, the first meeting is about the connection — not the caution.
Verified, nothing exposed.
You share that you’re verified — never your documents, address, or private details.
One link, everywhere.
Instagram bio, agency pitch, packaging insert — same handle, same trust, no platform lock-in.
Where your Realr shows up
In every chat before you meet.
One link, readable wherever your conversation already lives. Mock examples below; your Realr looks like your Realr.
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Aisha
Verified human
Bengaluru. Verified real, photos and all — send me your Realr before we meet.
realr.me/aisha
Match
online
Hey! Really looking forward to meeting up this weekend 🙂
Before we do — mind sending your Realr? Just to be safe.
Of course — here you go 🙂
realr.me/aisha
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Aisha
Verified · real person, age & photos
Perfect, sending now.
Or ask them first
“Before we meet — can you Realr your photos?”
Send a link in the chat you’re already in. They don’t need the app or an account, and they pick what to share.
- You send a link
- They prove it
- You get a straight answer
free to send, free to answer
Nikhil
online
Looking forward to Saturday! One thing before we meet —
realr.me/ask/k4Jm…
Can you verify?
Takes about a minute, and you choose exactly what to share. Free.
Sure, one sec
Done ✓
Real person · verified 18+
Name and number not shared
Made to share
The cards people screenshot.
Realr
Verified Human
Real person — first trust checks in place.
Realr
Identity Verified
Government ID, phone, and selfie checked.
Realr
Fast Responder
Replies in under an hour.
Live profiles
People doing this on Realr already.
Common questions
Dating & meeting someone new, answered.
How do you know if someone online is real before you meet?
Ask for their realr. It shows a live liveness check, verified age, and photos matched to their live face — so you know there’s a real person behind the profile, not a stolen photo or a bot. You share yours back, and neither of you hands over private documents.
What are the signs you’re being catfished?
Reluctance to video-call, photos that look too polished or reverse-search to someone else, a story that keeps shifting, and pressure to move off the app fast. The fastest check is to ask for a verified profile — a catfish can’t produce a live, face-matched realr.
How can I verify someone before meeting them?
Both people share a realr link before the date. It confirms a real, verified human with checked photos and consistent details — confidence before you meet, with no home address or ID numbers exposed.
Is it safe to share my realr?
Yes. realr shows the green checks — real person, age, photos verified — never the underlying documents or private data. You control exactly which fields a stranger can see.
Not quite you?
Realr also works for —
One handle. Your whole trust story.
Send me your Realr — before the first date.