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Swap realrs, not numbers.

Before you swap numbers with a stranger, swap the one thing that actually matters: proof you’re both real. Hand over your realr in a link, a QR, or a tap — and share that you’re verified without handing over your name, your number, or your life story.

Share proof, not data

A screenshot proves nothing. A phone number proves nothing. Your realr proves the one thing a stranger needs to know — that a real, verified human is on the other end — and shows only that. The claim, never the document behind it.

Verified on realr

They’re sharing that they’re real.

  • Real person
  • Government ID verified
  • 18+
  • Photos match their face
Never shared: their full name, phone number, address, or ID document. They choose exactly what a scanner sees.

Three ways to hand it over

Same realr, rising intimacy. Most of the time a link or a QR does the job on any phone. Tap is the in-person delight.

Link

Drop it in a bio, a DM, an email signature. Opens on any phone — no app, no scanning.

QR

Scan it across the table or off a poster. The workhorse — works on every phone today.

Tap

Phone to phone, in person. The hero moment when two people meet and both prove they're real.

Tap to prove, not tap to share

A digital business card shares your contact. A realr shares your proof. That’s the whole difference — and it’s the part that can’t be faked. Anyone can put any name on a tap card. No one can put a verified human they aren’t on a realr.

The in-person moment

Meet, scan or tap, and in about ten seconds you both see it: real person, verified, and — crucially — the verified face matches the person standing in front of you. That last part is the thing a catfish can never survive. It’s a handshake with proof built in.

Two people who walk away actually knowing they’re both real.

Cool, never creepy

Confidence, not surveillance. Every share is consented. Selective disclosure is the default — you prove the minimum and keep the rest private. There’s no silent collection, no log of who you met, and no leaderboard rating people. Proving you’re real should feel like a flex, never a risk.

Get a realr worth swapping.

Claim your handle, verify once, and carry one link that proves you’re real everywhere you meet a stranger.

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