Swap Realrs
Swap Realrs before you swap numbers.
Show each other you’re real first. Send a link or show a QR code.
How will you share it?
What’s your number?
realr.me/jordan
Their turn
Ask for their Realr too.
Send a request. They choose what to show you.
You ask Sofia
What should they confirm?
What they get
They see you’re real. Not your number.
Your Realr shows a real, checked person. Nothing else.
- Phone number
- Address
- ID documents
- Legal name, unless you share it
When neither wants to go first
Swap real names at the same moment.
Neither of you sees anything until you both agree.
Jordan shows
Sofia shows
Afterwards
Turn the link off when you’re done.
It stops opening. Saved screenshots stay saved.
Link for Saturday
Turned off
Details
More about swapping Realrs.
How do I share my Realr?
Send your link in a message, or show your QR code when you meet. The other person opens your shared details in a browser, with no app.
How do I check what I’m sharing?
Open your preview first. Choose which name, photo and results the other person sees. Your phone number and documents don’t have to be among them.
What happens when we meet in person?
Show the QR code and let them read the shared checks. Scanning opens a profile. It does not run a new check or guarantee that meeting is safe. You both choose whether to proceed.
Can I turn a link off later?
Yes. Make a separate share link and turn it off when you’re done. It stops opening, but that can’t erase what someone already saved.
Does a screenshot of a profile prove anything?
No. A screenshot proves nothing, and neither does a phone number. A Realr link opens the checks as they are today.