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How it works

Get verified once. Share one link.

A selfie, your ID and your phone, checked once. You choose what each person sees.

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  • Real person
  • Government ID
  • Phone
  • Over 18

Getting verified

Three steps. A few minutes.

  1. Step 1

    Take a selfie, show your ID

    Add your phone. A few minutes, once.

    • A selfie, to show you are a real person
    • A government ID, checked and never shown
    • Your phone and email, confirmed as yours

  2. Step 2

    Choose what people see

    First name only, or more. You decide for each person.

    • Choose the details for each profile
    • Your checks stay private until you share them
    • Preview it the way they will see it

  3. Step 3

    Send your link

    In a text, in an Instagram bio, or as a QR at the door.

    • A link for a chat or a bio
    • A QR for when you meet
    • Turn a shared link off when you are done

What the other person sees

They see which checks you passed.

Each check is one plain line. Nobody gets a score.

  • They are a real person
  • They are over 18
  • Their photos are really them
  • The name they gave you is theirs

Ask

Ask someone to prove who they are.

Free to ask. Free to answer.

  • Send a link. They need no account.
  • They choose what to confirm.
  • Only you see the answer.

Try it. What do you want them to prove?

Verified photos

Show your photos are really you.

Know the face in the photos is the face you will meet.

Verified photos
Example of a match, a woman in a rust jumper, laughing.Verified photo
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Live check

Show you’re there right now.

Before a call, a meeting or a payment. It ends by itself.

Privacy

Your ID is never shown.

People see that a check passed. They never see your documents.

  • ID documents
  • Date of birth
  • Phone number
  • Legal name, unless you share it

Before you start

Common questions.

Does the other person need an account?

No. They open the link and confirm what you asked. That is all.

What can they see about me?

Your name and what you asked for. Nothing else.

How long does a request last?

Fourteen days. You can cancel it before then, and it stops working immediately.

Is any of this public?

No. Answers are private to you. Realr publishes no ratings, scores or rankings.

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