For matrimony and family introductions
Check the match before families meet.
Ask for their Realr. It shows a real person, over 18, in their own photos.
- Real person
- Over 18
- Photos
- Government ID
JordanMatrimony match · introduced by familyMy parents would like to speak to yours this weekend.
That sounds good. Before the families talk, could you send your Realr?
Of course. Sending it now.
What it shows
What a match’s Realr can show.
- Real person
- Their own photos
- Age checked
- Income checked
- Degree checked
- Family or friends vouch
Before the families talk
Ask the match who they are.
Send one link. They choose what to show you and your family.
“My family asked for his Realr before the first call. Nobody had to send documents.”
Try it. What do you want to know?
Before the families talk, could you verify on Realr?
Their answer
They proved 4 things
- Free to send. Free to answer.
- They can say no.
- It ends after fourteen days.
Their photos
See their photos are really theirs.
Verified photos are checked to be the person’s own.
Your side
Send your link to their family.
One link for the match and their parents. Nobody sends photocopies.
Realr profileClaire
realr.me/claire
- Real person
- Over 18
- Photos
Your details
Choose what their family sees.
Show your age and your photos. Hide your social accounts.
Try it. Tap a row.
What their family sees
How it works
Prove who you are in three steps.
Check your face and ID
Your ID is checked once. It is never shown to anyone.
Choose what people see
Show the checks they need. Hide the rest.
Send your link
In a chat or as a QR code. They open it without an account.
Privacy
They see the check, never your ID.
People see that a check passed. They never see your documents.
- ID documents
- Date of birth
- Phone number
- Legal name, unless you share it
Questions
Questions people ask.
Are the photos old or someone else’s?
Ask for their verified photos. They are checked to be the person’s own.
How does my family know they’re genuine?
One link shows a real person, over 18, with verified photos. It does not check their job, their family or their intentions.
Asking for documents feels rude.
Nobody sends documents. You each send a link that shows your checks passed.
Open a made-up example profile:
Arjun