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How to share proof that you’re real online.

Choose the checks someone needs to see, then share them without sending your private documents into a chat.
  • 3 July 2026
  • 2 min read

Start with the situation

For a date, verified photos may be relevant. For a client introduction, identity checks may help establish who is speaking. You do not need to share your whole life to answer one question.

Complete the checks you want to use

Follow the verification instructions in your account. Some checks require review; submitting evidence is not the same as approval. Once a check is complete, read its label so you know what you are sharing.

Preview the profile

Choose the name, photo, location and verification results you want to show. Check the preview before sending. Keep details private if they are unnecessary for this conversation.

Send a clear invitation

Try: “Here’s my Realr so you can see which details are verified.” Let the other person decide what else they need. Verification starts a clearer conversation; it does not oblige either person to meet, buy or work together.

Last updated 22 Sep 2026.

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